A woman was raped on the motorway. The police blamed her. Twitter was enraged.
This is a dangerous country for women. And anyone who says otherwise is probably living in a parallel universe with no connection to ground realities.
But what makes everything worse is when officers are hired and paid to protect the public — we believe that does include women as well — not only fail to do their jobs but instead blame and shame rape victims.
Yesterday, two men raped a woman at gunpoint while she was waiting for help on the motorway after her car — in which her children were also present — developed a fault. Reports say the woman crossed the toll plaza on the Lahore-Sialkot motorway when her car stalled.
When that happened, she called a relative in Gujranwala who asked her to call the police helpline for assistance as he also left home to reach her. When he arrived at the location, he found the woman terrified with her clothes stained with blood.
Armed men had taken the woman and her children to a nearby field at gunpoint and had gang-raped her.
And then came Lahore Capital City Police Officer (CCPO) Umar Sheikh, who is set to lead the investigation of the heinous incident, saying the victim was at fault for “choosing the route she took and not checking her petrol tank” before heading out. Pakistanis were not going to take kindly to this kind of victim-blaming and victim-shaming.
This is CCPO Umar Sheikh of the esteemed Punjab Police, for whom one IG has already been let go. This victim blamer is supposed to protect us? pic.twitter.com/yoeZc7kBI0
— Zebunnisa Burki (@zburki) September 10, 2020
Clearly, our ‘protectors’ are not interested in doing their jobs and then blaming us for crimes committed against us.
A woman gang raped infront of minors and CCPO LAHORE very conveniently blamed the victim! Wow.
— khadija siddiqi (@khadijasid751) September 10, 2020
Hang your heads in shame.
#motorwayincident
CCPO Omar Sheikh was appointed by the govt to make an arrest and the first thing he said "first of all it's her mistake for choosing the wrong route to travel with 3 kids and not checking the petrol before leaving for Lahore" that's the main reason rape victims don't come forward
— Rumpoptarts. (@rumpoptarts) September 10, 2020
I wasn’t aware that the law does not offer protection to women from defence who travel with three kids on the motorway past 12:00 am, when was this law passed? @CcpoLahore
— Husn Hai Suhana (@Fatmounh) September 10, 2020
Women are at risk and this is a systemic problem — reinforced by those in power
CCPO Lahore must be removed for his callous remarks blaming the #MotorwayRape victim. If a top police officer can openly engage in victim blaming imagine how junior policemen treat rape survivors. THIS is why women don’t report sexual crimes. #RemoveCCPOLahore
— Ailia Zehra (@AiliaZehra) September 10, 2020
I hope the anchor followed up by telling the CCPO that he has just conceded on TV that his police force is so shit that he's basically said if a woman leaves her house after 12AM she is likely to be raped. An admission like that should get you sacked. https://t.co/WUNAYVgOuO
— Shaheryar Mirza (@mirza9) September 10, 2020
Omar Shiekh, CPO Lhd's blaming of the victims is shocking and condemnable. This is the patriarchal institutional mindset that risks women's lives. By blaming the victim, he endorsed the act of rape. We demand Punjab Govt. must remove him for his post immediately #RemoveCPOlahore
— farzana bari (@drfarzanabari) September 10, 2020
This country is a terrible place for women. No matter who you are -no matter where you are from-you can be killed for honour, harassed for your choice of profession, trolled online, raped, abused, neglected & judged only because you are a woman.
— Banari Mengal (@BanariMengal) September 10, 2020
Women are at risk and this is a systemic problem — reinforced by those in power
Shireen Mazari, and Hina Rabbani Khar condemn CCPO’s remarks
For an officer to effectively blame a woman for being gang raped by saying she should have taken the GT Road or question as to why she went out in the night with her children is unacceptable & have taken up this issue. Nothing can ever rationalise the crime of rape. That's it.
— Shireen Mazari (@ShireenMazari1) September 10, 2020
The shock, horror & condemnations of such a barbaric incident will nt take away the trauma or life changing damage to the victim & kids. But for the CCPO to blame the victim for taking the journey is criminal. Is the govt responsible for the safety of its citizens from 9-5 only.
— Hina Rabbani Khar (@HinaRKhar) September 10, 2020
For those who say ‘strong is safe’— we know, but that’s really not the issue here…
DO YOU PEOPLE USE KARATE AND MARTIAL F***ING ARTS WHEN SOMEONE BARGES IN YOUR HOUSE TO ROB OR HOLDS A GUN TO YOUR HEAD ON THE ROAD WHILE YOU FUMBLE FOR WALLET AND PHONE?
— Zoya Anwer (@ZoyaAnwerNaqvi) September 10, 2020
SHUT THE HELL UP
The problem is that apparently EVERYTHING works against women
What a misogynist police officer. Blaming the victim? His statement clearly reflects the root cause of the problem, women are not free to do what they want and if they do, they are under threat and police won’t help.
— Faizan Lakhani (@faizanlakhani) September 10, 2020
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also lol this man thinks a woman driving alone would feel safer on gt road as opposed to motorway because wahan abadi hai? never been a woman, have you?
— zainab mubashir🌙 (@zainabmsheikh) September 10, 2020
abadi is dangerous. any place with men is dangerous. only empty roads are safe. only the lack of ANY man means safety.
And It seems the ‘private sphere’ isn’t always the safest option either…
Funny how "go out with a Mehrum" is somehow a valid advice? Shit damn i didn't know that's what i had to do?? since the same mehrums also tend to sexually abuse women in their own homes??
— Jorjor wel🐾🍉🔻 (@Salemschild_) September 10, 2020
Maybe it’s time the roles are reversed
a safety tip for men to ensure that women remain safe in pakistan:
— Zoya Rehman (@pind_wave) September 10, 2020
— do not leave your homes for a week. lock yourselves up. let's see how many incidents of sexual violence against women are reported during this time. trust me, it'll work wonders. https://t.co/rQ7a5LKPjd
Being a woman in Pakistan
The agony felt on being a Pakistani on days like today is nothing in comparison to that felt by women in Pakistan everyday.
— Humza (@humzaay) September 10, 2020
The women on this app are angry because they’re faced with life threatening situations every hour. The men are angry because why are the women always angry these ungrateful bastards who don’t want to be constantly violated for existing how dare they?!
— Husn Hai Suhana (@Fatmounh) September 9, 2020
And this is why we need Aurat March, every single day of the year
Seriously, I don't want to wait till March 8 next year. I want to scream out my rage tomorrow with other women in public. Enough is enough
— Sarah Belal (@SarahBelal_) September 10, 2020
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